New best story on Hacker News: Ask HN: How do you not take criticism of your work personally?

Ask HN: How do you not take criticism of your work personally?
581 by molly0 | 580 comments on Hacker News.
I’ve come to realize that I often take constructive criticisms personally. Everything from an unintentionally snarky comment in a PR I’ve made to someone highlight a mistake I’ve made that I probably couldn’t have known about. I see this as one of my major flaws and try hard to mask how I feel. But I just hope to learn to stop feeling bad for honest mistakes.

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